Pinterest is an amazing resource. It allows brides to cull through beautiful images and be inspired by creative DIY projects. But for those of us in the wedding industry, we also know that Pinterest has a dark side. It can set unrealistic expectations and make those brides who weren't able to make those DIY paper buntings feel like failures. Photographers can tell you all about the frustration of having a couple come to them with a photo "list" courtesy of Pinterest, filled with requests of photos at sunset when the reception is in the mid-afternoon. Yikes.

Here are a few tips on how to manage the expectations of a Pinterest-obsessed bride:

Have her explain why she loves this particular photo or project. The complicated DIY project is only something an experienced crafter can pull off, and she has never held a glue gun in her life. As her wedding planner, ask her why this particular project is so attractive to her. Is it the idea that she can make something for those she loves? Or does she just like how well it fits in with her vintage theme?

A bride comes to you wanting a photo of her wedding party jumping up in a field. But there isn't a field near her venue, and the photo features a double digits bridal party, while she only has a maid of honor. What does she love about this photo (especially because it doesn't seem to directly mimic her own event)? Is it the sense of whimsy? How much fun everyone is having?

Suggest alternatives. Once you know why your client admires something on Pinterest, you can begin to solve the issue at hand. If she just really likes the look of the DIY project but doesn't really care about making them herself, find someone who can deliver a great final product. If she just really wants photos that reflect a carefree spirit, reassure her that you will look for those moments and capture them.

If necessary, show her Pinterest fails. Sad cupcakes that look like clumps of melted frosting. Purses that are sewn inside out. Wedding albums filled with photos that don't actually reflect the couple at all. If she isn't listening to your gentle suggestions, give her one last warning before dropping it. Showing her that Pinterest just delivers pictures, not promises, can be a helpful context to put her dilemma in.

But if this all fails, try to give her what she wants. Some brides are just adamant about what they want. Try to deliver a product that meets her goals and makes her happy.

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