How To Honour A Lost Loved One At Your Wedding - B&G Blog
How To Honour A Lost Loved One At Your Wedding - B&G Blog
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Wedding planning is seen as a fun and fluffy process full of rainbows and beautiful gowns, however, it can also be one of the most stressful times of anyone's life - yup that's right, never did you think you and your future partner could spend hours fighting over napkins. As important as all of those little things feel - the truth is none of it will matter on the day. While it might seem that a wedding is all about the couple and their special day, in reality, weddings are a time of celebration with your loved ones and friends, so it's only natural to want to include those who have passed away. Nothing will ever compare to being able to have your nearest and dearest physically by your side on your special day, but by honouring them in a way special to you - no matter how big or small, allows them to be there in spirit. A wedding is a massive occasion in anyone's life and it may be hard to acknowledge that certain people can't be with you to celebrate, however, it can also be a beautiful opportunity to memorialise those who have passed away. It's lovely to be able to incorporate a little something into your day to show your missing them however; it's crucial to find the right balance of remembering them whilst not dampening the joyous mood of the festivities. It's natural to get a little sniffly, however we don't want to see too much ugly crying on the happiest day of your life! All in all, whilst missing them is sad, it shouldn't overpower your day. Every relationship is different, and therefore, there are so many ways to pay respects to loved ones who are no longer here. No matter how you choose to share the memory, it is sure to be a meaningful addition to your special day. Here are a few ideas which we think are special: Have a sip... or two (we're all friends here, we won't judge) of their fave drink. 
A photograph of their ever so lovely face. 
A few nice words. 
Maybe you don't have a photograph or you wish to honour several loved ones who have unfortunatley passed - if so, a canvas with a quote such as "We know you would be here today if heaven wasn't so far away" is a great idea. Why not reserve and honour a seat at your ceremony and place the canvas on the chair? This is an incredibly heartfelt way to keep the persons memory close throughout, reminding you that they are with you in spirit. - Floral Canvas, £16.20. Plain Canvas, £16.20. 
Another lovely way of expressing your love for a relative who has passed away is through a photograph. This adds a personal touch to your day, sometimes a photo can speak a thousands words putting a smile on everyone's face. Why not use a memorable photo like one of them on their wedding day - allowing all of your guests to take a trip down memory lane. This lovely canvas is a modern design featuring neutral colours and a beautiful quote about heaven - making it the perfect addition to any wedding. - Canvas, £18.90 As mentioned above it can be hard to find the right balance between touching and heavy, of course it's important to remember your loved ones however, it is supposed to be one of the happiest days of your life so you don't want to be all snotty nosed and down in the dumps. This memorial canvas is one of our faves here at Bride & Groom Direct, adding a light hearted feel to a sensitive topic. A gorgeous chalkboard style canvas with both a modern and script font spelling out "Share a Toast - Wish you were here". Pop this canvas next to a bottle of their favourite drink and raise your drink in their honour! - Canvas, £16.20.
A photograph of their ever so lovely face. A few nice words. Maybe you don't have a photograph or you wish to honour several loved ones who have unfortunatley passed - if so, a canvas with a quote such as "We know you would be here today if heaven wasn't so far away" is a great idea. Why not reserve and honour a seat at your ceremony and place the canvas on the chair? This is an incredibly heartfelt way to keep the persons memory close throughout, reminding you that they are with you in spirit. - Floral Canvas, £16.20. Plain Canvas, £16.20. Another lovely way of expressing your love for a relative who has passed away is through a photograph. This adds a personal touch to your day, sometimes a photo can speak a thousands words putting a smile on everyone's face. Why not use a memorable photo like one of them on their wedding day - allowing all of your guests to take a trip down memory lane. This lovely canvas is a modern design featuring neutral colours and a beautiful quote about heaven - making it the perfect addition to any wedding. - Canvas, £18.90 As mentioned above it can be hard to find the right balance between touching and heavy, of course it's important to remember your loved ones however, it is supposed to be one of the happiest days of your life so you don't want to be all snotty nosed and down in the dumps. This memorial canvas is one of our faves here at Bride & Groom Direct, adding a light hearted feel to a sensitive topic. A gorgeous chalkboard style canvas with both a modern and script font spelling out "Share a Toast - Wish you were here". Pop this canvas next to a bottle of their favourite drink and raise your drink in their honour! - Canvas, £16.20. A burning candle. Another popular option is a burning candle through the reception to signify their remembrance of a loved one who had passed. This elegant chalkboard style canvas will look beautiful displayed alongside a burning candle and some photos. While sad, it is a sophisticated tribute allowing guests to spend a minute to reminse on happy memories - a truly wonderful way to honour their unforgettable role in your lives. - Canvas, £16.20.
How will you be remembering a loved one on your special day? Let us know in the comments.
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