Dilemma Of The Day Recap #9

Dilemma Of The Day Recap #9

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D I L E M M A R E C A P # 9 .

Dilemma of the Day: "I have been with my partner for 6.5years. I had a daughter when we met who he has been a great father to and we also have another daughter who we had together. It is my dream to be married to him. I am whole heartedly with the man I am I supposed to spend the rest of my life with. I have brought up the discusion of marriage quite a bit especially in the last few years. He has always said when we get out of debt we can get engaged and married. Then i had a dream that we just got married. No engagement ring no big day as to me the being his wife part is what I want. I mentioned the dream and he said that's the way to do it if you ask me. So i said why don't we? He straight away said he didn't want to upset me and that even though the ring etc wasn't important to him he knows they are to me. But i said i would be fine with getting married without all that. Then he said well it's just a piece of paper so what's the point? Do you think maybe he just doesn't want to get married?? He just keeps making excuses. I would rather he just stops leading me to think that it will happen some day if he doesn't really want to. I would still stay with him regardless because i love him. But i don't know where i stand? How can i get him to tell me what he really wants?" Dilemma of the Day: Dilemma of the day:

"About six years ago, a guy who is childhood friend of mine proposed to his girlfriend. I met her through him and we became good friends. My childhood friend later called off the engagement and she was heartbroken, understandably. The ex-fiancé and I have stayed really close.
Now my childhood friend is engaged again and his new fiancé has asked me to be a bridesmaid! I hardly know her, I'm polite when I see her but she is from overseas so doesn't have many friends here. My friend (the ex) is still affected by the breakup and I feel as though I'd be disloyal to her if I agree to be a bridesmaid for the new fiancé. In saying that, I've known the guy since we were kids. Should I reject the offer - or - be kind to the new fiancé? Technically she hasn't done anything wrong. How should I break the news to each person?"

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