Is it the weather? Is it the time if year? Is it the fact that for a lot of people 2016 has been a bit shit and there's way too much uncertainty about what's to come in 2017? In all honestly, I don't really know what the reason is (probably all of the above!) but the impending end of 2016 has felt like no other year I can remember.

I am an annoyingly positive person so wanted to close the year out with a little reminder to you that EVERYTHING WILL BE OK... and if it's not, you'll figure it out. Whatever you're feeling apprehensive about - where your business might be headed, how you're going to get everything on your wedding planning to-do list done, your relationship, your family, your bank balance - whatever it is don't forget that you are in control of your life and 2017 is a brand new year and a fresh new start. Yes, its a massive cliché but I am a firm believer in always looking for the positive in every situation.

While I'm not one for new year's resolutions (is any concept more likely to set you up for failure and make you feel like a massive loser when you fail?) I do think the end of another 365 days is the perfect opportunity to take stock, look back and realise just how much you've achieved - I bet it's more than you think!

I hope, like me, you'll be taking a break over the festive period (note to self: must try harder to not feel guilty for taking time off) and you'll hit 2017 with a fresh new perspective and lots of enthusiasm for what's to come. YOU CAN DO IT!

PS Just because I'm taking a week off for mulled wine and board game marathons, doesn't mean Rock n Roll Bride gets a break. I've scheduled a bunch of fabulous real weddings, some recaps sharing my favourite posts from the past year and there will be an intro guide to Rock n Roll Bride plus a guide to help you kick start your alternative wedding plans!

If you're new around these parts, or you've just gotten engaged, CONGRATULATIONS! I'm so happy you're here!