They say hindsight is 20/20 and that's certainly true when it comes to wedding planning.

When you're in the thick of it, it's easy to get bogged down in all of the tiny little details -- the save-the-dates, the favors, the centerpieces etc. That's why we asked married men and women to tell us what unconventional wedding advice they wish someone had told them before they walked down the aisle.

2. "Have a few disagreements along the way with your groom-to-be. Don't pick fights, but don't back away from them either. Wedding planning is likely one of the first stressful experiences you will have together as a couple. Life will throw many more hurdles along the way, so you might as well get familiar with how you will tackle problems together." - Jessica Wallace

18. "My advice would be keep it simple and romantic. My wedding was a simple occasion at the beach, with only relatives and a few close friends followed by a simple dinner at a local place." - Robert Lynn

19. "Make your wedding as personal as possible since it signifies the start of your new life together. Focus on the special touches that symbolize you, your partner and your lifetime together, more than anyone or anything else. Think of this as the kickoff to your lifetime of marriage, and make it a great day." - Abigail Wilson